No electronic devices rule
Nine Perfect StrangersTranquillum House’s no-electronic-devices rule requires guests to surrender phones, tablets, and other personal devices, turning digital detox into a condition of the retreat rather than a choice made moment by moment. It promises a break from habitual screen use, but the experience also reveals dependence, restricts guests’ access to outside information, and raises questions about who controls communication. The rule’s force is especially clear beside the technology that remains available to the retreat’s staff and the surveillance that watches the guests.
Introduction and Operation
At check-in, Yao asks Frances to hand over her electronic devices. She switches off her phone, takes it from her handbag, and gives it to him. He says the center will keep it safe and presents the arrangement as a welcome feature: some guests, he claims, enjoy the digital detox so much that they do not want their phones back when they leave. Frances experiences the exchange as an unexpected surrender of control, comparing it to being on an aeroplane after the seatbelt sign comes on, when the flight attendants seem to be in charge of everything. The device is not merely stored; handing it over announces that ordinary access to the outside world has ended.
The promise of transformation is part of this introduction. Frances tries to imagine herself ten days later as thinner, lighter, and free of pain, getting out of bed at sunrise without caffeine, but finds it oddly difficult even to picture that future. The absence of her phone thus begins alongside the retreat’s larger appeal: the hope that relinquishing familiar habits will produce a changed self. Yet the rule itself offers no guarantee that disconnection will feel liberating. Its first effects are uncertainty and dependence on the people running the retreat.
Daily Absence and Dependence
The rule recurs in small acts of attempted connection. Frances reaches for the phone she normally keeps beside her bed, intending to check the news and the next day’s weather, and then remembers that it is gone. The terse recognition gives the restriction its everyday scale: digital detox is not only a formal policy but the interruption of routines that would otherwise seem automatic.
Jessica’s experience makes the emotional dependence more explicit. Unable to sleep beside Ben, she misses her phone so intensely that its absence feels like an amputation. At home, she would pick it up and scroll through Instagram and Pinterest until she became tired. Without it, she cannot turn to the familiar stream of images that normally fills a sleepless interval.
The missing phone also changes how Jessica understands an event as it happens. During a night under the stars, she imagines photographing her scarlet-painted toenails beside Ben’s feet and posting the image with a cluster of hashtags about starlight meditation, the retreat, koans, and a falling star. She recognizes that she would want the post to make her seem intellectual and spiritual rather than superficial. More fundamentally, she feels that if she does not record the moment on her phone, it may not count as real life. She knows this feeling is irrational, but cannot simply dismiss it; she feels twitchy without the device and concludes that she is addicted to it. The rule therefore separates Jessica from the means by which she habitually documents and presents experience, leaving her to confront the difference between living a moment and making it visible to others.
Unequal Access and Surveillance
The apparent universality of the rule is undermined when Frances sees Masha’s office. Looking at its two oversized computer monitors and laptop, Frances wonders whether Masha is using the internet while the guests undergo digital detox. The contrast makes the policy less a shared renunciation of technology than an unequal distribution of access: guests’ phones have been collected, while Masha’s workspace remains equipped for digital connection. Frances, who has been without news for days, imagines what she might have missed, from a zombie apocalypse to a celebrity breakup. The possibilities are comic, but the underlying deprivation is real: she does not know what has happened beyond the retreat.
The guests’ loss of personal devices also does not mean the retreat is technologically unobserved. When the group is in the studio, Jessica points out a small security camera above the blank television screen; its red light is flashing. The guests look up at it, and Frances recalls that Yao told her about the security intercom system. The contrast is sharp: the guests cannot use their phones to seek information or record their experience, while the institution retains equipment for monitoring and communication. The rule consequently shapes not only attention but the balance of knowledge and control within the retreat.
Return of the Phones and Significance
After the crisis, the guests recover their connection to the outside world. Zoe retrieves a bottle of wine she had smuggled from her bedroom, while Frances finds a cache of apparently uncollected contraband in a small room behind reception, including six bottles of wine. Ben finds the mobile phones. Once they reconnect, the guests discover that comparatively little has changed during the week: the news includes a sporting scandal, a Kardashian marriage breakup, and a natural disaster. Different guests care about different stories, but the phones restore a shared channel to events beyond the retreat.
Ben uses his phone to play music and takes on the role of DJ, accepting requests across generations and genres. Its return is therefore not only a private relief or a source of news; the device becomes part of the group’s social gathering. As the guests eat and drink, music helps make a collective evening possible. The sequence reverses the opening handover: a phone first marks submission to the retreat’s authority, then helps the guests resume connections and pleasures on their own terms.
The rule’s significance lies in this double meaning. Going without a phone exposes habits that Frances and Jessica had scarcely noticed, from checking the weather and scrolling to documenting a night sky. But the staff’s continuing access to screens and the camera’s watchful presence complicate the claim that the retreat simply asks everyone to disconnect. When the phones return, the outside world proves not to have transformed during their absence. The more consequential change is in the guests’ experience of separation itself: disconnection has made both dependence on the device and the institution’s control over information newly visible.